The importance of language in
expressing ourselves is historically and scientifically proven. Similarly, the
most beautiful emotion, 'love', has to have its own language for every
individual; it is how they love and want to be loved.
The most unique feature of love is that it happens differently to everyone. Everyone feels the emotion and express it differently. Therefore, understanding love language is crucial to think that you are loved by someone whose love language may differ from yours. Then it will all make sense, and you will be at peace. Understanding the difference in love languages between you and your partner is a crucial factor of met-art.
So let us see what the five
love languages are.
Are you that cheesy partner
who loves saying "I love you" so often and hearing it back even more?
Then your love language may be words of affirmation. It does not only associate
with "I love you" but every form of verbal expression that speaks
loudly about how much you love them, what they mean to you etc.
In the first example, your
partner's love language was quality time. Nothing can make them happier than
their partner making time for them exclusively and spending good time with them
while providing undivided attention.
Third, love language is
physical touch, where a person expresses and feels love through skin-to-skin
contact. It has nothing to do with sensuality or met-art; they need
physical contact to feel connected and understood.
This specific form of love
language is precisely opposite to that of the first one. This language
appreciates selfless and thoughtful acts that make the other person feel warm,
loved and cared for. For example, making them a cup of coffee or jumping into
the scene when they need help is forms this language.
This final language of love
does not define gold diggers. Love language works both ways, which means whose
way of feeling loved is through receiving gifts; their form of expression will
also be the same, giving gifts. They seek to find meaning behind gifts. That's
how they weigh the value of the gift. Even getting them a bunch of flowers, a
book, or a handwritten note can bring the brightest smile to their face.